When I was talking to Heather about getting a Mojo pair, I asked her to pick me out a pair. I don't think Mojos ever look the same in person as they do in pics, so no sense in me using pics to decide on a pair. I'm SUPER pleased with the ones she picked out....at least in pics anyway I believe the male is on the left....or the right....or the left....errrr here they are. Thanks Heather!