Not sure which part of my response you took as rude or disrespectful but that wasn't my intent. And yes, I assumed you were new to BPs (which was accurate), as a simple bit of research can answer the questions that you asked. So to me, it seemed as though you were a little bit too uninformed for someone that "talked the breeder into" taking it home early. I made comments based on the information provided.
The previous responder had already addressed your questions, so I was voicing concern. Sorry, but new to herps or old to herps, new to BPs or experienced with them, I'm not one thats going to take a snake from a breeder before its shed and eaten a couple times. I'm also not going to sell them before then. Its in the best interest of the buyer, the seller, and most importantly, the snake.
My apologies for offending you, it wasn't my intent. Not sure the backlash was at all warranted, but to each his own. Best of luck with your new addition.