If you're going to stay on this site, you have to understand a lot of the people here are very very very critical of everyone else. You just have to learn to ignore a lot of it.
If you don't have thick skin, you might consider posting less, and reading more.
They were critical in this thread because this is his 3RD snake he's lost, 2 of which he didn't find.
You have to understand that many members here have a very very deep passion for this hobby and to see someone lose 3 snakes comes across as very irresponsible.
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