I knew there wasn't much I can do. I think the most bothersome thing is that she tends to behave poorly while we visit her house (my in-laws) but not really at my house. So I've tought about saying you can come visit when your parents say you are behaving but my hubby doesn't think thats a good idea. Oh well, I'll just stick to my guns when shes on my turf and when she acts out toward me.