Kudos to you on the loss, JamieLynn! It's not easy, but well worth the effort. I'm not happy that I haven't lost weight yet, but at least I haven't gained anything either.

That 'can't work' thing really ticks me off as well. My good friend and next door neighbor is much larger than those folks are and just started a new job as a catering chef at a 4 or 5 star restaurant! Talk about active. But yes, there are also a lot of jobs that just require sitting that I have seen many large people doing. Grr...