Some strange aggressive guy comes into my house and puts my kids in danger. Maybe if he goes inside your house you will try to "relocate" him. Sorry, but if he comes into my house, he is going to get shot. I guess that's where we differ.
I am about as militant as they come, and I see what you are saying. But if someone breaks into my home, they will likely be shot, but if I am able to deescalate it I will. Same with a snake, or anything that I don't have to kill.
Sheep, Wolves, and Sheepdogs
"Most of the people in our society are sheep. They are kind, gentle, productive creatures who can only hurt one another by accident."
"Then there are the wolves," the old war veteran said, "and the wolves feed on the sheep without mercy."
"Then there are sheepdogs," he went on, "and I'm a sheepdog. I live to protect the flock and confront the wolf."