So I am getting married next summer and my fiance and I have been talking about potentially having children in the future. At first neither of us wanted to, but now my sister is pregnant and we are sort of reconsidering. My biggest fear is that having a kid will basically make me a one dimensional person-- THE PARENT. So many of my friends on FB who were interested in all sorts of things prior to kids now only talk about or post about their kids. It's all they do. I'm just getting started on breeding geckos. I read a lot, and hike and fish and hunt. I love who I am now. My fiance loves who she is. We're worried that to become parents would mean giving all of that up. So I was wondering if some of you who DO have kids and are herp keepers/breeders could weigh in on this. And if you DON'T have kids... do you worry about the same things?