My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 years. I am not into all of his hobbies and he is not into some of mine either. Finding that someone special will happen when you least expect it. It is not all about physical attraction either. I find intelligence, compassion, and a sense of humor very sexy in a man. I love my boyfriend and he loves me and we respect each other. He is not fond of snakes and I am not fond of his boat but we compromise and it works out great. So, don't go looking so long and hard for the "right" girl, because she will appear in your life when you least expect it.