What would you do, as a buyer, in this situation?

[Billy305]

Probably because the OP is complaining about getting her refund before the sellers deceased family members body is even cold...

This. Yes we know the refund was offered by the seller but since its been hours and its not in the buyers hand they are considering filing a complaint.

I realize all kinds of different excuses are used by scammers, but not everyone is a scammer and stuff does happen. What we are saying is that the seller should give the buyer a reasonable amount of time before jumping to conclusions.