Sounds to me like your putting Waay to much pressure on yourself and that when you see a girl you want to talk to you are building it up into this huge deal that its not. So first off you need to relax. Realize that its ok to be nervous and that its also ok to open with that. Mention that you actually get really nervous when you try to talk to girls. Not only will it break the ice, but most likely she will enjoy your honesty, feel flattered that you decided that she was worth talking to despite your anxiety and at the very least you will get a good conversation out of it (and a little bit of practice to boot).
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