The smokes and liqueur isn't exactly great, but if condoms are considered bad, would you or they prefer to get some poor girl your age, in school, no job, not an ADULT yet pregnant?
This...
Well, and that lady wanting to dump the beardie.
The last time my mom threatened to do this, I threatened to hit back with a pocket knife and call the cops.
Spanks are okay, but slapping and hitting and using a belt just isn't. This kid might need some sense knocked into him, but possible jail time and fines for animal cruelty would be a better option, not deep bruises or busted fingers (defending) or busted face from a belt or physical punishment.