It an each his own thing.
Do I expect to be invited on first meet?
Will I buy on first meet?
No I do not and will not.

Will I buy from someone (small breeder) that doesnt have a business location or a place I know I can find them IF something goes wrong?
NO.

As stated I trust no one and I expect the same in return.
This is just the type of person I have become.

***long story short.........I use to deal guns on a daily basis (not a lot of the cheap junk you can buy in a store) and I almost got screwed into federal time because I wanted this Colt Combat Commander. I bought it without getting my buddy to run the numbers. I was hot to trot for it because I have 2 that are one serial number apart and believe it or not this gun was the one in the middle!! Yeah me, till I had the numbers run and found out it was way hotter than anything I ever touched! Ballistics came back on 9 different bodies as a POSITIVE MATCH. Guess what, not one print anywhere but mine. Also the ID I got copied from the guy was fake. (Yes we met at a kinkos so both IDs could be copied on the spot if I wanted the gun.) Needless to say, this guy was nowhere to be found and I am out a little over 5k for something I wanted to add to my collection. I know the gun was destroyed because I was the one in the armory that cut it in half.***

Since then my trust in people changed and my gut always comes first. If I cannot see and feel it for myself. I dont need it.