I read things about stress and I already worry we have stressed her out to much. No mater what the "temp" of the tepid water she hates it being "forced" upon her and always freaks out the first minute or so before calming down and accepting it.(but on her own she glides though her water dish at the same temp...accept for her head which is always lifted)
As for her head....I'm not scared of being "bit" because at this point I would rather suffer a small bite over her shed. I don't think she would bite anyway...I just don't want to stress her or have her "hate us"...
As for poop...my boyfriend let her crawl off of his hand onto the coffee table a few months ago and as she crawled off she paused and crapped onto the ground between his hand and and the table....oh well! It was nasty but we cleaned it up.(luckily we have wood floors and not carpet. LOL)
I would gladly have her crap on me and have to take a shower rather than do what we are doing now.....
I am COMPLETELY scared of trying to handle her in such a manner though because not only will it create stress for her but won't she kind of "hate" us for doing it to her?
I am a bit terrified of "biting the bullet"