Thanks Jim...
from another military wife and "single" mother (due to endless trips, deployments and hardship tours)
Plus doing it in a "foreign" country

My entire family is in Germany. But what doesn't kill one, makes one stronger.
You do get to a point where you weed the "BS" out, because there simply isn't time or energy for it. And you get to read people very well.
I've been mostly quiet on these threads, but I find it hard to believe how some can pull the wool over others eyes. And certain attitudes just really make me sick. And no, its not the much mentioned "BG Sickness" as I don't know that guy from a hole in the ground, nor do I care to.
Its not just what you "do", its also the motive and what one expects in return. And organizations CAN be hurt by being affiliated with the wrong persons, or persons that do nothing but turn others off of it.
Ok, I've said more then I wanted. I know for sure that it does no good to carry this on. There are people with certain and obvious personality disorders, and going on and on with them simply accomplishes nothing. You will never ever get through to them. Literally.