Its definately not just for the baby. My older daughters mom and i tried that. Doesnt work.

I guess its just her and i have the same past. Being abandoned and adopted, so i see her fears. And having been cheated on by every other girl, im getting good at seeing the truth. I was just brutally blindsided by what she had said.

If i could afford counseling i would go. For myself as well as my relationship. But the opinions and advice here is helping me alot with what i should do. Who knew you could get everything on a ball python forum!

Lol so, anyone got extra cash or snakes lyin around?? Joking.