I have as well. I even screen people who are adopting my normal males. I don't have an answer for Wes' original question - as he said - not sure that there is a right answer.
But if I don't know a person through the forums, I do like to know that they are prepared to take on a new baby. I can guarantee that they are feeding consistently for me, so that if they don't feed for their new owner, I can help them figure out why a consistent feeder has gone off feed.
I've got two possible het clown males (being placed as normals) that I have what I consider good homes for, with new keepers who have been sent here to prepare for their babies - but now I'm a little concerned, because these two are VERY snappy babies, and I want their first experiences to be positive. Oh the worries!!!!