I need help...

Okay, so heres how the story goes... My sister is a little 6th grader... Totally innocent little girl, has friends in her grade who are also very innocent... And theres this girl "Dominique" in a grade above her.... I know everyone around here, and who they really are, and this girl "Dominique" is one of those girls who is up to nothing but trouble.. She's the girl nobody in her grade likes, b/c she is very desperate and whoreish for the lack of a better word... She started hanging out with my sister out of nowhere and i dont like this.. Younger kids look up to older kids, and want to be like them, and Dominique isnt the girl i want my sister being ANYTHING like! Now my sister is Going To Dominiques house EVERYDAY! And has been trying to act all big and tough, and is trying to be someone she's not... This Little Girl Dominique, is really doing something mentally to my sister, and my sister is like BRAINWASHED, by her.. If this girl was a boy i would have no problem going and having a "little talk" with him after they get out of school... But Surprisingly The Thing is a Girl! So i cant have a "little talk" with it... So what do you say i do? I've tried telling my sister that Dominique is unliked b/c she's up to nothing but bad stuff, and that she'll make you like her, but my sister Just DOESNT LISTEN! Im really starting to get P.O.'ed by this, and i always have to be in control of a situation, but this is the first time im not... Its rediculous...

tell ur sister she has herpes lol

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Originally Posted by kris62901

tell ur sister she has herpes lol

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I tried that one... lol

lmao sure ur sisters smart enough to do anything stupid so just give her advice like u were doing and worse comes to worse tell ur parents

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Originally Posted by kris62901

lmao sure ur sisters smart enough to do anything stupid so just give her advice like u were doing and worse comes to worse tell ur parents

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Yea, i've told my mom over and over, but my mom has this crazy idea, "This is all part of growing for a girl".. I dont think she gets it...

I have raised two. Both belong to this forum. I do not know your unique situation however, if you have parents at home they need to know the situation. Trust me, this is not ratting out your sister. You would rather have her mad now than when she looks at you after finding out she is prego and saying why didn't you stop me. Love sometimes means we have to do the unpopular thing, because it's the right thing to do.

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Originally Posted by tonkatoyman

I have raised two. Both belong to this forum. I do not know your unique situation however, if you have parents at home they need to know the situation. Trust me, this is not ratting out your sister. You would rather have her mad now than when she looks at you after finding out she is prego and saying why didn't you stop me. Love sometimes means we have to do the unpopular thing, because it's the right thing to do.

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Oh yeah.. My parents are well aware of the situation.. They are the first ppl i go to when this stuff happens.. But my mom always thinks im over exaggerating... Maybe i am, but all i know is i dont want my sister hanging out with this girl.. Shes just one of those girls you sense is nothing but bad news... My mom, already talked to the girls mom, but i dont trust most kids around heres parents... They let their kids do whatever they want... My mom is really strict and protective over my sister, b/c as i said, she is just a little girl.. But she doesnt get to see what goes on when my sisters at "dominiques" house.. Im gonna have a few of my girl friends (friends that are girls) go talk to this kid, and tell her to find some friends her own age... nd not to brainwash younger kids into liking her...

You need to keep on your parents about this. The fact your rents aren't listening has to be tough. I know ALL about that ordeal.

Maybe even have a talk with Dominique's parents.

If this were MY little sister, I'd be fighting till the death to protect her.

Hopefully it's just a phase.

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Originally Posted by DBD

Oh yeah.. My parents are well aware of the situation.. They are the first ppl i go to when this stuff happens.. But my mom always thinks im over exaggerating... Maybe i am, but all i know is i dont want my sister hanging out with this girl.. Shes just one of those girls you sense is nothing but bad news... My mom, already talked to the girls mom, but i dont trust most kids around heres parents... They let their kids do whatever they want... My mom is really strict and protective over my sister, b/c as i said, she is just a little girl.. But she doesnt get to see what goes on when my sisters at "dominiques" house.. Im gonna have a few of my girl friends (friends that are girls) go talk to this kid, and tell her to find some friends her own age... nd not to brainwash younger kids into liking her...

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Sorry i was distracted for a moment. This really heavily depends on your relationship with sis. If mom will not stop her from seeing the older girl, you might sit down with her and explain how much you love her and carefully without condemnation explain how you have observed the changes in her because of her friendship with "D". Then point out girls you know your age like "D" and explain this is what "D" is headed toward. Then ask Is this where you want to be. Also I must mention your lifestyle will effect your credibility with her. If you hang with wild girls etc. Your word will carry little weight.

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Originally Posted by 2kdime

You need to keep on your parents about this. The fact your rents aren't listening has to be tough. I know ALL about that ordeal.

Maybe even have a talk with Dominique's parents.

If this were MY little sister, I'd be fighting till the death to protect her.

Hopefully it's just a phase.

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Yea, i'll have no problem talking to her parents.. And i have my way with words (if you remember from when i first came here)...

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Originally Posted by tonkatoyman

Sorry i was distracted for a moment. This really heavily depends on your relationship with sis. If mom will not stop her from seeing the older girl, you might sit down with her and explain how much you love her and carefully without condemnation explain how you have observed the changes in her because of her friendship with "D". Then point out girls you know your age like "D" and explain this is what "D" is headed toward. Then ask Is this where you want to be. Also I must mention your lifestyle will effect your credibility with her. If you hang with wild girls etc. Your word will carry little weight.

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Yea, thats what im going to do... And my sister knows everyone i hang out with.. I never hang out with the "wild girls".. Those are the girls with diseases like "D" haha.. I hang out with all the girls who are obviously Extremely Gorgeous, but dont have to have sex with every boy to get attention like most girls like "D" do... And my sister knows that.. Im even gonna get some of my friends who are girls, to talk to my sister also... My word takes heavy effect on my sister always, and this is the one time im really bothered, b/c this is the one time its not....

I also strongly recomend sitting with her parents and explaining your feelings. Also sit with her alone and expalin what this girl can do to her life. And if your mom is doing nothing how bout your dad?

Daniel

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Originally Posted by DBD

Yea, thats what im going to do... And my sister knows everyone i hang out with.. I never hang out with the "wild girls".. Those are the girls with diseases like "D" haha.. I hang out with all the girls who are obviously Extremely Gorgeous, but dont have to have sex with every boy to get attention like most girls like "D" do... And my sister knows that.. Im even gonna get some of my friends who are girls, to talk to my sister also... My word takes heavy effect on my sister always, and this is the one time im really bothered, b/c this is the one time its not....

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Just remember one thing. Girls need love and affermation (sp) of selfworth. If they get it at home they are less likely to get it other places like a boys bed. She needs to know that she is special and doesn't need some stinky boy to tell her so. Fathers and older brothers telling her and treating her as special will do just fine (No I do not mean anything dirty, proper affection and appreciation does more to prevent pregnancy than all the just say no adds in the world)

I said all that to say that if you can't stop the relationship with "D" maybe you can stop her from taking the next step by imulating "D"

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Originally Posted by Simpson Balls

I also strongly recomend sitting with her parents and explaining your feelings. Also sit with her alone and expalin what this girl can do to her life. And if your mom is doing nothing how bout your dad?

Daniel

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Dude, what? My mom is doing nothing? My mom is doing all she could... But she just has a different opinion on the matter.

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Originally Posted by tonkatoyman

Just remember one thing. Girls need love and affermation (sp) of selfworth. If they get it at home they are less likely to get it other places like a boys bed. She needs to know that she is special and doesn't need some stinky boy to tell her so. Fathers and older brothers telling her and treating her as special will do just fine (No I do not mean anything dirty, proper affection and appreciation does more to prevent pregnancy than all the just say no adds in the world)

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Oh trust me, she knows that she is WAYYYYYY more than special! My parents tell her how beautiful she is, and how much they love her, and how well she is going to do in life with her great grades... Even though it doesnt bother me, and i would rather this, my dad literally favors her... Lol.. But i would rather he favor her.. I care more about her than i do me.. I guess she is just trying to be grown up... I hate when little girls think they are adults lol Its so annoying... But w/e, im sure this will pass, its definately a stage...

what my sister says to me when im hanging out with the wrong people is, watch when you get arrest youll see you wont want to hang out with them anymore and what do oyu know it happened she just says youll see who your true freinds r

She probably has to learn this on her own. If this friend is such a bad person she will in someway screw your sister over and she will realize that you were right. I hope this doesn't happen but it could.

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Originally Posted by Jsh

She probably has to learn this on her own. If this friend is such a bad person she will in someway screw your sister over and she will realize what you were right. I hope this doesn't happen but it could.

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Yep.. It would be a good learning lesson for my sister, but if she ever does screw my sister over.. well... lets just say, she will most likely move out of the country...

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Originally Posted by DBD

Yep.. It would be a good learning lesson for my sister, but if she ever does screw my sister over.. well... lets just say, she will most likely move out of the country...

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:)

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Originally Posted by DBD

Yep.. It would be a good learning lesson for my sister, but if she ever does screw my sister over.. well... lets just say, she will most likely move out of the country...

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what r u going to do :)