Looking for kind words, my boyfriend has testicular cancer

It was confirmed as of yesterday, they found a tumor *sigh*. He's going in for surgery on Wednesday and from there they will decided what needs to be done, radiation or chemo. The doc kept reminding me that it has a very high success rate, but I've still been in tears off and on. I'm hoping against hope that everything goes well. I feel bad because I'm supposed to be there for him and HE has to console me...pathetic I know! We've been together for 4 years so I've grown attached to him :P

It sounds like the only "bad" thing that will come of this is that we can't have kids for two years :bow: It wasn't bad news for me! Now we have a reason to keep pushing kids off when the family asks :D (And yes we've been asked about kids! Aren't we supposed to get married first? :confused: :rofl: )

I'm just looking for kind words and support from those who have experienced this or have loved ones who experienced it. I'm sure he'll be ok, but I still worry.

For me, nothing makes me feel better than a good joke. It's all about timing and knowing what the person can tolerate. Something like:

"I've always wanted you to shave down there anyway."

You know him better than we do.

Also, the less stress he sees from you, the better he'll feel.

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Originally Posted by MasonC2K

For me, nothing makes me feel better than a good joke. It's all about timing and knowing what the person can tolerate. Something like:

"I've always wanted you to shave down there anyway."

You know him better than we do.

Also, the less stress he sees from you, the better he'll feel.

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Thanks very true! He's taking it really well. It seems like the only thing he's worried about is having a surgery, he's never had one before. I've been joking with him about how people can't call him uno, they will have to call him Bionic man. For those that didn't know, you can get a prosthetic....eh hem. He jokes about people asking to touch it like they do with fake breasts. I told him I surely hope not. Lol.

I'm glad they have prosthetics, I'm not sure I could handle him having a complex about it because he had cancer. Cancer is a big deal no matter where it is, people are really inconsiderate about men who've had testicular cancer. I don't understand.....

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Originally Posted by Isis

Thanks very true! He's taking it really well. It seems like the only thing he's worried about is having a surgery, he's never had one before. I've been joking with him about how people can't call him uno, they will have to call him Bionic man. For those that didn't know, you can get a prosthetic.... eh hem. It won't be functional, but he jokes about people asking to touch it like they do with fake breasts. I told him I surely hope not. Lol.

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Lol. At least you two are trying to stay positive. Did you ever watch Patch Adams? Saddest movie ever, but sometimes laughter is the best medicine.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you two. Good luck!

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Originally Posted by Isis

It was confirmed as of yesterday, they found a tumor *sigh*. He's going in for surgery on Wednesday and from there they will decided what needs to be done, radiation or chemo. The doc kept reminding me that it has a very high success rate, but I've still been in tears off and on. I'm hoping against hope that everything goes well. I feel bad because I'm supposed to be there for him and HE has to console me...pathetic I know! We've been together for 4 years so I've grown attached to him :P

It sounds like the only "bad" thing that will come of this is that we can't have kids for two years :bow: It wasn't bad news for me! Now we have a reason to keep pushing kids off when the family asks :D (And yes we've been asked about kids! Aren't we supposed to get married first? :confused: :rofl: )

I'm just looking for kind words and support from those who have experienced this or have loved ones who experienced it. I'm sure he'll be ok, but I still worry.

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Wow :(.He will be ok :gj:

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Originally Posted by stratus_020202

Lol. At least you two are trying to stay positive. Did you ever watch Patch Adams? Saddest movie ever, but sometimes laughter is the best medicine.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you two. Good luck!

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Yes I have, I love that movie! Thank you very much!

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Originally Posted by joepythons

Wow :(.He will be ok :gj:

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Thank you! You guys are making me tear up again! I cried in my Spanish class because I went back to class right after I found out. That was embarrassing, but I sucked it up and was able to continue with class. Everyone probably thought I was a freak. Oh well.

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Originally Posted by Isis

He jokes about people asking to touch it like they do with fake breasts. I told him I surely hope not. Lol.

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The thought scares me that someone could really ask this :O :weirdface :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

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Originally Posted by joepythons

The thought scares me that someone could really ask this :O :weirdface :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

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:rofl: I KNOW!!!! Actually, a good friend of ours, a male, is very curious about the implant. I wouldn't be terribly surprised, if there was enough alcohol involved, if he asked :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

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Thank you! You guys are making me tear up again! I cried in my Spanish class because I went back to class right after I found out. That was embarrassing, but I sucked it up and was able to continue with class. Everyone probably thought I was a freak. Oh well.

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Dont cry :rolleye2:.When i was diagnosed with cancer they told me i could only expect a 5yr extention of my life.This coming Feb 14th will be 9yrs :banana:.I was in stage three of the cancer range also.So if i can bounce back so can he.Now picture the bionic man bouncing hmm hmm :rolleyes:.I hope that last sentence made you laugh :P

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:rofl: I KNOW!!!! Actually, a good friend of ours, a male, is very curious about the implant. I wouldn't be terribly surprised, if there was enough alcohol involved, if he asked :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

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Uum 20 cases of 100 proof vodka could not even get me to even think about asking that.BEWARE of that friend :O :8:

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Dont cry :rolleye2:.When i was diagnosed with cancer they told me i could only expect a 5yr extention of my life.This coming Feb 14th will be 9yrs :banana:.I was in stage three of the cancer range also.So if i can bounce back so can he.Now picture the bionic man bouncing hmm hmm :rolleyes:.I hope that last sentence made you laugh :P

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:rofl: oh my gosh that did make me laugh!

I'm so glad to hear you are going on your 9th year! Congrats! I guess we won't know what stage it's at till they do a biopsy? It was a lot to take in yesterday and I couldn't remember anything.

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Originally Posted by joepythons

Uum 20 cases of 100 proof vodka could not even get me to even think about asking that.BEWARE of that friend :O :8:

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:rofl: He's an interesting fellow to say the least!

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Originally Posted by Isis

:rofl: oh my gosh that did make me laugh!

I'm so glad to hear you are going on your 9th year! Congrats! I guess we won't know what stage it's at till they do a biopsy? It was a lot to take in yesterday and I couldn't remember anything.

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Thanks! Yea anytime you need a pick up you let me know :gj:.One thing on the chemo stuff.Depending on which one(if any) they use it can be a butt kicker at first until your body adjusts.Tell him to let his doctor know if he has any bad side effects like dizzyness or feeling sick to stomach.They will give him something to stop that feeling.If he needs someone to talk to let me know ok gj:,sometimes its easier to ask certain questions

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Originally Posted by Isis

:rofl: He's an interesting fellow to say the least!

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My dear asking a question like that doesnt even put him in the interesting club in my opinion :rolleye2:

It's one of the most difficult things to go through together....but....to do it "together" is way better than having to go it alone! And they have made such huge strides in curing cancer!

My husband and I have a couple that are very dear friends...and he went through testicular cancer about twelve years ago...had a massive tumor that had spread into other parts of the abdomen. They got it all cleaned out, and after the rounds of treatments, he was clean and fully recovered and is cancer free to this day.

And while it wasn't the same type, my hubby also had cancer and we went through his surgeries and treatments together. There were scary moments...and horribly tedious moments...and setbacks. But we held each other up through it all....stayed positive and did our best to keep a good sense of humor. He's also fully recovered and cancer-free to this day. (Nine years now, too!) And we're so much stronger and closer as a couple.

Going through it SUCKS. But if you keep your focus on the positives instead of the negatives, you'll both get through it faster than you'd imagine and come out the other side strong and healthy. :hug:

Sorry to hear about this. Hope all goes well and you guys will be my prayers.

Sorry to hear this Isis. BG has had a couple friends with this kind of cancer and everything turned out OK. One of them was over 10 years ago and he's fine.

BG has to ask though. Is the BF OK with you putting this on the world wide webb? When it comes to that area of the bod, men can be a leeetle funny about it. BG might be a leeetle po'd at his gf if she did this. He can't have people making fun of his perfect bod.:D


BG hopes it turns out OK.:gj::gj:

first of all cancer is NOT a death sentence.i went thru hodgins disease with my ex wife 18 years ago,she's healthy and well today.one of the most rewarding experiences was our involement with a cancer support group.feeling your "feelings" with a group of people who are/where you are at is a very powerful dynamic.i encourage you and your BF to seek out a group.

it may be premature to mention this now but as the years go by you may find this chapter of your life very rewarding and empowering,giving you tools that make life a bit easier to handle.i wish you both the best.

You are both going to be in my daily prayers.

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Originally Posted by Big Gunns

Is the BF OK with you putting this on the world wide webb?

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I guess you dont realize that we ARE a family here and can share anything here ;).

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Originally Posted by Isis

:rofl: He's an interesting fellow to say the least!

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haha, who are you talking about?


But in all seriousness, he'll pull through and be fine. My thoughts are with you and him.

JonV

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Originally Posted by JLC

It's one of the most difficult things to go through together....but....to do it "together" is way better than having to go it alone! And they have made such huge strides in curing cancer!

My husband and I have a couple that are very dear friends...and he went through testicular cancer about twelve years ago...had a massive tumor that had spread into other parts of the abdomen. They got it all cleaned out, and after the rounds of treatments, he was clean and fully recovered and is cancer free to this day.

And while it wasn't the same type, my hubby also had cancer and we went through his surgeries and treatments together. There were scary moments...and horribly tedious moments...and setbacks. But we held each other up through it all....stayed positive and did our best to keep a good sense of humor. He's also fully recovered and cancer-free to this day. (Nine years now, too!) And we're so much stronger and closer as a couple.

Going through it SUCKS. But if you keep your focus on the positives instead of the negatives, you'll both get through it faster than you'd imagine and come out the other side strong and healthy. :hug:

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Thank you very much. I didn't think about it that way, but it will definitely make us closer. We've been through some tough times in the last couple years, but this is by far the worst. I'm so happy to hear of all the success stories.

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Sorry to hear this Isis. BG has had a couple friends with this kind of cancer and everything turned out OK. One of them was over 10 years ago and he's fine.

BG has to ask though. Is the BF OK with you putting this on the world wide webb? When it comes to that area of the bod, men can be a leeetle funny about it. BG might be a leeetle po'd at his gf if she did this. He can't have people making fun of his perfect bod.:D


BG hopes it turns out OK.:gj::gj:

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Thanks BG. Keep the success stories coming!

As for if he cares about this being on the web, I highly doubt it. His facebook status pretty much says it all. Although not the "bionic" part. His brother isn't so good at social skills and was so inclined to write on my wall that he will be fine and that I shouldn't think anything less of him as a man :rolleyes: As if I of all people would think that....

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Originally Posted by twh

first of all cancer is NOT a death sentence.i went thru hodgins disease with my ex wife 18 years ago,she's healthy and well today.one of the most rewarding experiences was our involement with a cancer support group.feeling your "feelings" with a group of people who are/where you are at is a very powerful dynamic.i encourage you and your BF to seek out a group.

it may be premature to mention this now but as the years go by you may find this chapter of your life very rewarding and empowering,giving you tools that make life a bit easier to handle.i wish you both the best.

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That's a good idea. If he will need chemo I think a support group is a must. I've had family members that have died because of cancer, but that was because they were old and didn't want to go through chemo. I've never had a friend or family member get chemo so we would definitely need people to talk to. I have no idea what radiation entails either. I know he's been looking at forums for testicular cancer, but I don't think he's joined any. It would be nice to know what to expect.

Thank you so much, I think it will be a good thing for us to go through as a couple and definitely a good thing to look back on and see how far we've come.

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Originally Posted by nevohraalnavnoj

haha, who are you talking about?


But in all seriousness, he'll pull through and be fine. My thoughts are with you and him.

JonV

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Lol I don't want to say too much because Williamsburg is so darn small. I'll have to tell you about him on Sunday maybe!

And thank you Jon!

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Originally Posted by joepythons

I guess you dont realize that we ARE a family here and can share anything here ;).

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That's why I love this site :P I love you guys!

Stephanie - sorry to hear that the two of you are going through this, but a positive attitude truly does go a long way towards successful recovery and it sounds like you guys are already winning that battle!

A very dear co-worker of mine was diagnosed with small cell lung cancer this summer (the most deadly type) and she has dealt with it with humor, and the most amazing grace I have ever had the honor of witnessing. Her last scan showed no signs of the cancer, but she's completing the rounds of chemo (one more round to go) and then will go through 17 days of brain radiation (this type of cancer loves to spread to the brain and your bones, and apparently chemo does NOT reach your brain. It's more preventative than anything.

I'm so pleased that she's going to be returning to work in January, and I can't wait to have my friend back. It has been a scarey ordeal, but our VP set her up with a doctor when she was first diagnosed (my company sponsors a yearly "Sprint for Cancer" 5/10k fundraiser, so lots of connections with doctors and such) and she was an Emory case study with a team of 17 doctors. She joked "how many of you can say that your vice president makes your doctor's appointments for YOU?"

In any case, cancer, if caught early CAN be beaten, and I'm sure that your boyfriend is going to be cancer free in no time! :hug:

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Stephanie - sorry to hear that the two of you are going through this, but a positive attitude truly does go a long way towards successful recovery and it sounds like you guys are already winning that battle!

A very dear co-worker of mine was diagnosed with small cell lung cancer this summer (the most deadly type) and she has dealt with it with humor, and the most amazing grace I have ever had the honor of witnessing. Her last scan showed no signs of the cancer, but she's completing the rounds of chemo (one more round to go) and then will go through 17 days of brain radiation (this type of cancer loves to spread to the brain and your bones, and apparently chemo does NOT reach your brain. It's more preventative than anything.

I'm so pleased that she's going to be returning to work in January, and I can't wait to have my friend back. It has been a scarey ordeal, but our VP set her up with a doctor when she was first diagnosed (my company sponsors a yearly "Sprint for Cancer" 5/10k fundraiser, so lots of connections with doctors and such) and she was an Emory case study with a team of 17 doctors. She joked "how many of you can say that your vice president makes your doctor's appointments for YOU?"

In any case, cancer, if caught early CAN be beaten, and I'm sure that your boyfriend is going to be cancer free in no time! :hug:

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Thank you so much Robin! It so nice to hear all of these wonderful stories! I'm so glad your friend is doing well. Luckily Blake and I like to joke around a lot. It's been a lot easier for me when he's around because he's so positive about it.

tell him good luck. Im actually going in january to get mine rechecked. I went in june and they told me that I had a cyst that could turn into cancer so they want to check me every so often now and that is the most uncomfortable thing you could ever do.

He'll be fine. You guys are in this together and his strength along with yours creates a powerful force.

Tell him good luck for me! Just stick by his side and give him as much support as you can. :gj:

Aw Isis.

Do not feel bad about your tears and your need for support. Cancer is a scary thing and leaves us feeling pretty powerless and helpless. So I think crying is an appropriate response.

Sexual/reproductive cancers were up till a few years ago cloaked in silence and embarassment. Good on your partner for being able to deal with it frankly. In the early years of the AIDS movement there was an expression `Silence=Death` which basically means if we do not talk about AIDS then we will die from AIDS.

I think it fits for many things.

No one flinches at the mention of breast cancer now, but a lot of people have been mobilized for a lot of years to make sure we can talk about it openly and in so doing, we can save lives. Same with testicular cancer, prostrate, uterine, and colon cancers.

Sounds like you are both in a good space to deal with this, not that anyone should ever have to, but you have each other, and it sounds like you have great family and community around you.

Never hesitate to reach out to them when you need to!
Consider it cashing in on years of xmas and birthday gifts (time for PAYBACK!!!). :D

I will be thinking good thoughts for your partner and praying-thinking of his testicles... wait a minute, I think that came out wrong!!! :rofl:

Hugs,
Bruce

So sorry to hear this Stephanie :( You'll be in my thoughts! I deal with hard times with humor, and looking on the bright side. Same for us, my BF and I are constantly being asked when we're going to have kids, and we're not even engaged! Been together for almost 5 years though!

You guys will get through it!

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Originally Posted by Denial

tell him good luck. Im actually going in january to get mine rechecked. I went in june and they told me that I had a cyst that could turn into cancer so they want to check me every so often now and that is the most uncomfortable thing you could ever do.

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Thank you! And make sure you keep up with those check ups!!! Do they do an ultrasound each time? The doc told my boyfriend it was a cyst three months ago, it got bigger so he went in again and got antibiotics, and two weeks later there was no change. The doc was going to send him home with antibiotics again, but he wanted another doc opinion and that doc was freaked out and wanted an ultrasound done. Low and behold there was a tumor. :( I'm glad you have been watching it!

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Originally Posted by blackcrystal22

He'll be fine. You guys are in this together and his strength along with yours creates a powerful force.

Tell him good luck for me! Just stick by his side and give him as much support as you can. :gj:

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Thank you! I will!

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Aw Isis.

Do not feel bad about your tears and your need for support. Cancer is a scary thing and leaves us feeling pretty powerless and helpless. So I think crying is an appropriate response.

Sexual/reproductive cancers were up till a few years ago cloaked in silence and embarassment. Good on your partner for being able to deal with it frankly. In the early years of the AIDS movement there was an expression `Silence=Death` which basically means if we do not talk about AIDS then we will die from AIDS.

I think it fits for many things.

No one flinches at the mention of breast cancer now, but a lot of people have been mobilized for a lot of years to make sure we can talk about it openly and in so doing, we can save lives. Same with testicular cancer, prostrate, uterine, and colon cancers.

Sounds like you are both in a good space to deal with this, not that anyone should ever have to, but you have each other, and it sounds like you have great family and community around you.

Never hesitate to reach out to them when you need to!
Consider it cashing in on years of xmas and birthday gifts (time for PAYBACK!!!). :D

I will be thinking good thoughts for your partner and praying-thinking of his testicles... wait a minute, I think that came out wrong!!! :rofl:

Hugs,
Bruce

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I hate that it's something to be embarrassed about. Thank heavens Blake isn't embarrassed about it, and doesn't mind people knowing. I think you're exactly right silence=death. Thank you so much for your support :)

I'm glad you'll be thinking about him and his testicles! :rofl:

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So sorry to hear this Stephanie :( You'll be in my thoughts! I deal with hard times with humor, and looking on the bright side. Same for us, my BF and I are constantly being asked when we're going to have kids, and we're not even engaged! Been together for almost 5 years though!

You guys will get through it!

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Thank you. Lol, I don't know what it is with people and wanting to rush those of us who aren't ready for kids/marriage yet!!! :rofl:

What happened with me was I started to have pain alot and I mean I wasnt getting hit or anything I would jsut be waling around like walmart or something and just start hurting and I didnt want to go to the doctor for almost a year because I was embarrased and then finally I felt a lump and really freaked out so I went to the hospital one night becuase I was in EXTREME pain. And there ultrasound machine they have there they dont operate at night so I had to be scheduled to come back in the next week for an ultrasound and when I got there the room was filled with pregnant women and I was the only guy there and it was very uncomfortable. You could tell they were wondering what I was doing there. And then when I was called to go back in I got on the table and when they started with the machine somethign happened and it stopped working so someone had to come in and fix it. And when the women checked she told me I had two cyst and I didnt even know about the other one. She also said I have alot of bad tissue there thats been damaged over the years from riding bikes and skating. And she made me an appointment with a specialist and he looked at me and said that 99% of all males have cysts down there but most of them do not ever relize they are there because they do not bother them. He said some will go away some will grow in size and some can be cancerous. But one thing he told me is that they usually do not bother guys and they dont hurt. Well mine hurt really bad sometimes. He told me he didnt think they were cancerous. And sent me on my way. Well I didnt feel comfortable with that because he siad they dont hurt and mine did so I went to another doctor and he is the one that said he wants to keep track of it and check up on me every so often. I get an ultrasound every 3rd visit so its every couple of months. And he said since im so young he doesnt want to operate and take them out but he said if they start to grow or if they continue to cause pain or if he see signs of it becoming cancerous he is going to take them out. Its very uncomfortable for a guy to get an ultrasound although the more I do it the more comfortable Ive become with it. But I do hope everything goes well with your boyfriend from what the doctors have told me though is that its a very simple procedure and testicular cancer has a very high success rate for recovering cancer free. But its always scary when cancer is involved with anybody in any part of there bodys

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Originally Posted by Isis

I'm glad you'll be thinking about him and his testicles! :rofl:

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Haha isnt it nice to know that more people care about his testicles than you thought!! :rofl: but i will keep him in my prayers!

Sorry to hear this and you guys will definately be in my prayers Stephanie!!!!!

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Originally Posted by Isis

It was confirmed as of yesterday, they found a tumor *sigh*. He's going in for surgery on Wednesday and from there they will decided what needs to be done, radiation or chemo. The doc kept reminding me that it has a very high success rate, but I've still been in tears off and on. I'm hoping against hope that everything goes well. I feel bad because I'm supposed to be there for him and HE has to console me...pathetic I know! We've been together for 4 years so I've grown attached to him :P

It sounds like the only "bad" thing that will come of this is that we can't have kids for two years :bow: It wasn't bad news for me! Now we have a reason to keep pushing kids off when the family asks :D (And yes we've been asked about kids! Aren't we supposed to get married first? :confused: :rofl: )

I'm just looking for kind words and support from those who have experienced this or have loved ones who experienced it. I'm sure he'll be ok, but I still worry.

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I'm very sorry to hear about your boyfriend. I am a Registered Nurse and I will tell you that it does have an extremely high success rate. So keep your heads up, focus on proper nutrition and staying positive and you'll be making babies in no time (hugs)

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Originally Posted by Denial

What happened with me was I started to have pain alot and I mean I wasnt getting hit or anything I would jsut be waling around like walmart or something and just start hurting and I didnt want to go to the doctor for almost a year because I was embarrased and then finally I felt a lump and really freaked out so I went to the hospital one night becuase I was in EXTREME pain. And there ultrasound machine they have there they dont operate at night so I had to be scheduled to come back in the next week for an ultrasound and when I got there the room was filled with pregnant women and I was the only guy there and it was very uncomfortable. You could tell they were wondering what I was doing there. And then when I was called to go back in I got on the table and when they started with the machine somethign happened and it stopped working so someone had to come in and fix it. And when the women checked she told me I had two cyst and I didnt even know about the other one. She also said I have alot of bad tissue there thats been damaged over the years from riding bikes and skating. And she made me an appointment with a specialist and he looked at me and said that 99% of all males have cysts down there but most of them do not ever relize they are there because they do not bother them. He said some will go away some will grow in size and some can be cancerous. But one thing he told me is that they usually do not bother guys and they dont hurt. Well mine hurt really bad sometimes. He told me he didnt think they were cancerous. And sent me on my way. Well I didnt feel comfortable with that because he siad they dont hurt and mine did so I went to another doctor and he is the one that said he wants to keep track of it and check up on me every so often. I get an ultrasound every 3rd visit so its every couple of months. And he said since im so young he doesnt want to operate and take them out but he said if they start to grow or if they continue to cause pain or if he see signs of it becoming cancerous he is going to take them out. Its very uncomfortable for a guy to get an ultrasound although the more I do it the more comfortable Ive become with it. But I do hope everything goes well with your boyfriend from what the doctors have told me though is that its a very simple procedure and testicular cancer has a very high success rate for recovering cancer free. But its always scary when cancer is involved with anybody in any part of there bodys

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I'm glad to hear that you are keeping up with everything. I hope everything goes well for you! Good luck with everything, and thank you!

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Originally Posted by dc1

Haha isnt it nice to know that more people care about his testicles than you thought!! :rofl: but i will keep him in my prayers!

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:rofl: It sure is!!! Thank you very much.

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Originally Posted by Boanerges

Sorry to hear this and you guys will definately be in my prayers Stephanie!!!!!

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Thank you so much!

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Originally Posted by TaylorS

I'm very sorry to hear about your boyfriend. I am a Registered Nurse and I will tell you that it does have an extremely high success rate. So keep your heads up, focus on proper nutrition and staying positive and you'll be making babies in no time (hugs)

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Thank you! It's definitely reassuring to know that the success rate of being cancer free is very high. Wednesday seems like it's taking forever to get here!

Sorry to hear this and testicular cancer has a very high success rate for recovering cancer.

So i think you should recover fast and have a wonder full life.

Grace
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Originally Posted by Isis

Thank you! You guys are making me tear up again! I cried in my Spanish class because I went back to class right after I found out. That was embarrassing, but I sucked it up and was able to continue with class. Everyone probably thought I was a freak. Oh well.

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ppl in my class think the same of me cuz im goth.but i ignore them