Completely devastated

Op is so "love blind" you could hit him with a 120mm cannon full of reality, logic, and common sense and it would have absolutely no effect.....

Makes any discussion or argument a moot point, especially when your ignoring everyone that says something you don't like.

Hope everything works out for you, and if it doesn't ... That you make it out with just a broken heart, not criminal charges or having to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life.

There are good people here giving you sound advice, don't be so dismissing of what their saying.

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Originally Posted by Maixx

Op is so "love blind" you could hit him with a 120mm cannon full of reality, logic, and common sense and it would have absolutely no effect.....

Makes any discussion or argument a moot point, especially when your ignoring everyone that says something you don't like.

Hope everything works out for you, and if it doesn't ... That you make it out with just a broken heart, not criminal charges or having to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life.

There are good people here giving you sound advice, don't be so dismissing of what their saying.

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Thank you I appreciate your input.

Evan, I'm not here to be negative, I'm here to be supportive. And I really think you are in an unhealthy situation here. I hope you figure out what to do.

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Originally Posted by Jessica Loesch

Evan, I'm not here to be negative, I'm here to be supportive. And I really think you are in an unhealthy situation here. I hope you figure out what to do.

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Thank you for your concern Jessica and everyone else. I'm gonna think long and hard about this :)

You'd already be dead if it was my daughter. Call Springer. He enjoys seeing this stuff! Not on BP.They ought to give you 30 yrs. ! Just my opinion

Wow a lot has been said the last 8 pages so i'll try not to drag this out too much, but I hope that you get what you need out of these posts, you sound like you are starting to come around in the last couple posts I just hope it's not just to get people off you back cause you don't like the views the other posters have on your situation, like Wilomn said.

The younger me would have felt sorry for you and understood your situation (had something similar), after all it's only three years right.

The high school me would have thought you were a pansy and tell you forget the mom, and either go out and bang as many chicks as you can or do whatever it takes to get the girl.

The 28 year old married (going on 9 years) and has a young daughter me, thinks you are crazy immature and thinks you really need to think long and hard about the situation before doing anything, be grateful nothing legally has happened yet(I hope) and get your life squared away first and think of your future man.

What I mean is the only thing in life that is a 100% guaranteed is change, for the good and the bad. Don't take it so hard if it does not work out you are still young.

good luck.

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Originally Posted by CatandDiallo

That's kind of creepy/crazy.

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Hardly. When my mom met her current husband, they'd talk for hours on end. I recall one Saturday afternoon, we went over to his house. While I had fun goofing off with his daughter, mom and him talked, and talked, and talked..Until about 6 am the next morning. I've done the same thing with really close friends.

So no, not creepy/crazy.

I really don`t see how this got so much attention .... i`ve seen posts of one of a kind snakes that dont get this many replies!!!!!!

But as a father myself of an almost 16 y/o boy .... if i found him in this situation i would do my best to talk him outta it. I`ve been down the long distance relationship road ... and it was the toughest relationship of my life. Thought at the time it was great ... looking back at it ... not so much! I think you should take a long step back and reavailuate your situation ... i think your in for some hurt down the road.

just my 2 cents!!!!

John

I was a teenager once. If she had the same love for you, she would find a way to talk to you. My mother did not always approve of the people that I dated growing up. I even went as far as skipping my High School Graduation to visit my boyfriend in jail because I was mad at my mom. She had cut all of my hair off the night before because I told her that he liked my long hair. I thought that she was the meanest mom on the planet. I went off to college with 1" long hair and looked like a boy. :rofl:

I was young, dumb, and deeply in love. Long story short 2 years later he died of an overdose after he stole my bank card and drained my account. It took a few years to forgive my mom, but she was only looking out for my best interest.

My mom always told me that at 18 you look for different qualities in a person. That changes in your early and late twenties. I agree 100% with her. People change as they get older. I know that I sure did.

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Originally Posted by AtlasStrike

There is no law against relationships, the laws are about sexual consent. There is a VERY important difference.

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Actually, it is nowhere near that black and white.... So much so that the laws can even be broken in a phone conversation, text message, or internet chat room. Trust me, judging from the things the OP has said, the line has already been crossed.

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Originally Posted by wilomn

I smell Tuna. Lots and lots of tuna.

Well done, it seems you fooled some of the more caring of our happy members.

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I had suspected as much... but any time there is a possible child victim in a sex crime it is better to error on the side of caution.

It appears as though the OP has at least taken the time to review his local laws.. this would explain his new stance on how he will back off until she is 18... and how he now claims that nothing has ever happened.