Sometimes I hate him!

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Originally Posted by Savannelee

Is this better? Am I doing it right??

And who are you to tell me what I can and cannot say??

Anyways good luck in life, hope everything works out.

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Yeah, much better this time! :gj:

I didn't tell you what you could or couldn't say; I requested that we stop beating this already mutilated dead horse, let this thread die, and allow the OP to get on with her life without having to see all of our unnecessary opinions regarding her personal life.

You know what I mean, Jellybean?

I have read every comment on this thread. I thank everyone for there opinions whether they are what I wanna hear or not. Even though I dont seem like it I have taken everything everyone has said to heart. And if we were just dating I would be out of there in a heartbeat, but we are married its not as easy to just break up.

Thank you all for letfing me vent, and for all your opinons I greatly appreciate them all. You are all a great group of people.

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[QUOTE=TJ_Burton;1945995]Yeah, much better this time! :gj:

I didn't tell you what you could or couldn't say; I requested that we stop beating this already mutilated dead horse, let this thread die, and allow the OP to get on with her life without having to see all of our unnecessary opinions regarding her personal life.

You know what I mean, Jellybean?[/QUOTE

I agree :)

If she didn't want any opinions posted about her situation, then posting to a public forum is rather silly. When you start a thread, people will post their opinions on it. It will run it's course until people aren't interested, or until a mod shuts it down.

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Originally Posted by PorcelainxDoll

And if we were just dating I would be out of there in a heartbeat, but we are married its not as easy to just break up.

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This comment here worries me. If you are only not leaving because you tied the knot, then I believe that you should leave immediately. I said on multiple occasions that I would have left my wife were in not for us having kids together, and in the end we split anyway. If you are in a position where you would leave based solely on that person, but other circumstances are making you stay (kids, marriage, etc.), then forget about the other circumstances and leave. Not telling you to leave, just trying to give some insight.

I just mean that breaking up when your just dating is a lot easier then when you are married.

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Originally Posted by gsarchie

This comment here worries me. If you are only not leaving because you tied the knot, then I believe that you should leave immediately. I said on multiple occasions that I would have left my wife were in not for us having kids together, and in the end we split anyway. If you are in a position where you would leave based solely on that person, but other circumstances are making you stay (kids, marriage, etc.), then forget about the other circumstances and leave. Not telling you to leave, just trying to give some insight.

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I think, instead of saying its harder leave when married, that the proper more informative way is to say that "it's easier to separate because nothings become intertwined". When dating, you give their stuff back and get yours and it's over. Married, there is paper work and shared accounts, housing arrangements (leases, taxes), car issues, and some times kids and/or pets. So, while its material driven, you're more likely to try and make things work for a longer time do that you don't have to deal with it. It's motivation, lacked when dating, that drives you to try for longer.

And thats what I think she means, rather than "well, we're dating and I'm done, good bye". There is also family issues, I'd say it would be difficult but not impossible to not have to see my wife's family.


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Originally Posted by Kodieh

I think, instead of saying its harder leave when married, that the proper more informative way is to say that "it's easier to separate because nothings become intertwined". When dating, you give their stuff back and get yours and it's over. Married, there is paper work and shared accounts, housing arrangements (leases, taxes), car issues, and some times kids and/or pets. So, while its material driven, you're more likely to try and make things work for a longer time do that you don't have to deal with it. It's motivation, lacked when dating, that drives you to try for longer.

And thats what I think she means, rather than "well, we're dating and I'm done, good bye". There is also family issues, I'd say it would be difficult but not impossible to not have to see my wife's family.


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^ this.

Also, I always told myself id only marry if I plan on being married for life. So I dont wanna break that promise to myself just yet.

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