Re: What to do when you are totally bummed
Chocolate chip, but I doubt I am leaving KC anytime soon. Though I have been tossing around the idea of joining the military so....lol we shall see.
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Oh, well, then if that's the case I'll send cookies, wipes, and something to cuddle with. O_o I've been working on care boxes for friends of mine overseas.
Re: What to do when you are totally bummed
Well if it helps any my 7yo son I was on the pill, and my 6yo daughter we where useing a condom that broke.
I enjoy doing artwork, if that is you in your avatar do work on some new tats:D and if you ever get out to SD my hubby and I got a couple new guns and new ink, so we are all set to do some tat work.
I try and focus on things I do enjoy, it does get hard sometimes, but there will always be something good in the end.
I have a tub of chocolate chip cookie dough in the freezer:D
Getting out into nature and spending some alone time works with me too, I take me and a camera and head out into the hills take pics on the way find a nice spot and sit, almost like meditating.
I also clean when there is nothing else for me to do.
I'm in a pretty bad place myself rite now, and it is so hard to find the good when everything looks so bad.
My husband said you can do one of 2 things: do nothing and maby things will work out, or get up and make the best out of what you do have.
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I run, and run, and run...then go on the computer, and then read a good book or two...
The child thing is pretty scary I bet. But now you'll have a little someone to share your snake passions with :)
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Lets just say that the Nuva ring birth control AND Trojan are both FAIL in my eyes right now. What are the odds? 99.9 my butt. Really maybe I should get my het pieds up to breeding size, with the odds I hit, I think I would probably have a clutch of all pieds! As it stands, I can't afford to get mates for my corn snakes, or my new rack project bleh.... just bummed and ranting, sorry guys and gals.
Hmm hate to be the one to point it out but both failing at the same time seems fishy bud. I feel like a real jerk saying this but make sure you get a dna test. Just trying to look out for ya man. As for cheering you up you can poke at your snakes that what I do. Its fun to poke their chubby bellies lol.
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the last half of 2008 was horrible...2009 isnt starting off good either. I jsut keep telling myself things will get better. you gotta look on the bright side, you are alive and there are people who are worse off. atleast thats what i tell myself to keep me from going insane. im sure things will work out! just gotta be positive man
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When I'm pretty bummed out, I'll go work out or just completely go through and clean my herp collections habitats. That alone for me takes some time, and you get to play with your snakes/herps while you're at it!
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Go work out it gets rid of stress and releases some endorphins :D
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When I'm not in a good mood i go and run, lift weights or swim (im a commpetitive swimmer) it helps me relive stress....
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Hmm hate to be the one to point it out but both failing at the same time seems fishy bud. I feel like a real jerk saying this but make sure you get a dna test. Just trying to look out for ya man. As for cheering you up you can poke at your snakes that what I do. Its fun to poke their chubby bellies lol.
I thought the same thing but wasn't going to post it.
