What to do when you are totally bummed

So, when life isn't going your way, you feel like you are losing control of everything....what do you do? I used to play a bit of warhammer 40k but the company that makes that game screwed it up so I don't enjoy it. Same with playing WoW. It just seems like my life has taken a horrible turn and I can't cope with it right now. I have nothing to relieve stress. My love life is fallin apart. I am going to be a dad and never wanted kids. My snake breeding plans are falling apart due to money. What the heck do you guys do? How can you have fun with no money?

Cars are one of my passions, so I can hop in and go for a short drive somewhere nice and get everything off my mind. Music also helps me a lot, as well as partner stunting. Maybe try working out? Go for a run outside with head phones, or lift weights somewhere.

Sorry to hear that things are overwhelming. That is never fun... :(

For me, I go somewhere where this is no one, I see no one, I talk to no one, and I just listen and sit and be alone with me outside of my usual space.

A park, museum, library, gallery... wherever. Takes a bit to get the internal dialogue to die off, but when it does, man is it blissful. :)

Not sure that would be your thing, but regardless, I hope things take an upswing for you and that you are able to cope with the changes ahead.

Bruce

You can have tons of fun with no money, I left my fiance last July and haven't been a date since then (keeping it simple), I'll tell you like I tell my son, birth control is free so there is no excuse, but I love kids you'll make a cool dad, keep your chin up ok

I go on the computer and normally watch youtube videos:oops:

I'm sort of in that same place. I've been doing a lot of reading, writing, and going to the gym. I also do a lot of baking. O_o I don't really eat what I make, but it gives me a serious boost when someone else devours my cookies or cheesecake or whatever.

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Originally Posted by llovelace

You can have tons of fun with no money, I left my fiance last July and haven't been a date since then (keeping it simple), I'll tell you like I tell my son, birth control is free so there is no excuse, but I love kids you'll make a cool dad, keep your chin up ok

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Lets just say that the Nuva ring birth control AND Trojan are both FAIL in my eyes right now. What are the odds? 99.9 my butt. Really maybe I should get my het pieds up to breeding size, with the odds I hit, I think I would probably have a clutch of all pieds! As it stands, I can't afford to get mates for my corn snakes, or my new rack project bleh.... just bummed and ranting, sorry guys and gals.

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Originally Posted by Melicious

I'm sort of in that same place. I've been doing a lot of reading, writing, and going to the gym. I also do a lot of baking. O_o I don't really eat what I make, but it gives me a serious boost when someone else devours my cookies or cheesecake or whatever.

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Yeah well, a batch of cookies would cheer me up right now. You can keep the nasty cheesecake ;)

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Originally Posted by stormwulf133

Yeah well, a batch of cookies would cheer me up right now. You can keep the nasty cheesecake ;)

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Aww. Well, if you're ever in town, I'll bake. ^_^ Just let me know your favorite cookies.

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Originally Posted by stormwulf133

Lets just say that the Nuva ring birth control AND Trojan are both FAIL in my eyes right now. What are the odds? 99.9 my butt. Really maybe I should get my het pieds up to breeding size, with the odds I hit, I think I would probably have a clutch of all pieds! As it stands, I can't afford to get mates for my corn snakes, or my new rack project bleh.... just bummed and ranting, sorry guys and gals.

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I have 2 pill babies, my son is 21 and my daughter 19 I got the crappy odds also lol they are my pals though.