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Friends to lovers?

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  • 12-09-2008, 09:14 PM
    N4S
    Friends to lovers?
    Ok, well there has been this girl I met on Myspace about 5.5 years ago right near the time I met Steph (ex-fiance).

    We really had no interest in each other it was more just a friend type deal. Steph knew we are friends too.

    Over the years we really just talked a lot about the relationships we were in and stuff like that.

    I only met her face to face once throughout all those years and it was by accident at a bar.

    Since me and Steph called it off months ago we started talking on the phone instead of just instant messenger.

    I really consider her as a best friend throughout the years providing support and advice and vice versa. She helped me dearly through the heart break of the broken engagement.

    So a few months ago she got out of a dead end relationship as well. So it's weird because we know what each other wants just from all the previous conversations and such.

    Well she has started coming down to my neighborhood a lot and we have been hanging out but nothing more between us just friendship.

    She knows that I have been talking to girls but really never said anything about it.

    It took me a while to think that maybe she does have a thing for me but I didn't want to say anything or make a move just in case she wasn't thinking that and either put things in the tube or put myself in an awkward situation.

    Well, we went again on Friday night and came back to my place after the bar. She lives about 20 mins away and said she is tired.

    I said you can stay over and take the bed and I'll sleep out here. She looked at me and said lets both sleep in the bed. Smiled and me and then went in for the kill. haha

    I'm the type of guy that doesn't rush things and like to take my time. So nothing dirty happened. PG rated night to say the least. :)

    We have let each other know that we are going to take it day by day but in all reality I feel good about this one. I have even cut off communications with the others that I recently been talking to because they could not even compare to what could possibly happen in this case.

    Her friends and family have been saying to her that she seems oddly happy recently walking around with that special glow. She says it's all because of what seems to be happening.

    I'm just really happy and really hope it works out for the better.

    The kicker is that we know what each other wants and knows what each other has been through and it could make things really special.

    And for the guys.....here is a pic. :D

    I couldn't ask for more.

    http://i36.tinypic.com/5ts2o.jpg
  • 12-09-2008, 09:28 PM
    MDB
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    haaaaaaaaaaaaaa LUCKY lol. Wow she is realy beautiful just dont screw it up. Thank godd my wife is very tolerant of all my bs. Goodluck!
  • 12-09-2008, 09:32 PM
    Melicious
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    She's a cutie. I sort of know that situation well.

    Just let things take their course, and don't rush things. What will happen will happen.

    Good luck, and remember to be careful.
  • 12-09-2008, 09:43 PM
    python.princess
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    That's kind of how things happened with Jason and I. We met here on BP.net and started IMing and... yeah... :D

    Best of luck to you! She's kind of a hottie!
  • 12-09-2008, 09:47 PM
    juddb
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    She's a FOX buddy, Good luck i hope it works out for you and her!
  • 12-09-2008, 10:05 PM
    N4S
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by python.princess View Post
    That's kind of how things happened with Jason and I. We met here on BP.net and started IMing and... yeah... :D

    Best of luck to you! She's kind of a hottie!

    Wow thats cool!

    A lot of people I know are against meeting someone online that eventually becomes a relationship.

    My supervisor is married and just had a child with a female he met on myspace.
  • 12-09-2008, 10:08 PM
    Melicious
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by N4S View Post
    Wow thats cool!

    A lot of people I know are against meeting someone online that eventually becomes a relationship.

    My supervisor is married and just had a child with a female he met on myspace.

    My Daddy and I met online. -Grins.- We've been together for ten months.
  • 12-10-2008, 05:51 AM
    Drew87
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    WOW congrats man, shes a very good looking girl. Sounds like your happy as well. Best of luck. :gj::salute:
  • 12-10-2008, 06:49 AM
    ballpythonluvr
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    She is very beautiful. I met my boyfriend online and we have been together for almost six years now. I wish you the best of luck!
  • 12-10-2008, 02:33 PM
    Ginevive
    Re: Friends to lovers?
    Sounds interesting! My best friend met her husband on Match.com; they have been married for 3 years. It can happen!
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