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  • 01-14-2010, 03:40 AM
    pitbulls4me
    Feelin good
    It is probably a bit weird but I am going to post about my new found freedom ( a lack of friends to share the good news with lead to this post). I am now a single woman after being imprisoned in a horrible relationship for 5 years! It is hard moving past the end of the relationship but in the end it truly feels good! I am not sure how the whole dating thing goes so this being single thing will probably last a bit. I am hoping to rekindle freidnships lost due to the relationship and control nature of it.

    Well thats all... again I apologize for the crazy post.
  • 01-14-2010, 03:51 AM
    Darkice
    Re: Feelin good
    Grats on your new found freedom. Dont waste it. :cool:
  • 01-14-2010, 04:00 AM
    DShaw
    Re: Feelin good
    Congrats....Life's way to short to waste it
  • 01-14-2010, 04:01 AM
    singingtothewheat
    Re: Feelin good
    Congrats. As Darkice said, don't waste it and don't hand it away to anyone who isn't going to treat you like you are precious, smart and wonderful.. It isn't worth it.
  • 01-14-2010, 09:17 AM
    BPelizabeth
    Re: Feelin good
    Congrats on having the strength to get out....it is a scary step sometimes. Every female deserves to be treated like a precious flower and every man like a king. I totally believe that and it is out there! I can attest to it!!

    Use this time to take a look back on all of your past relationships and figure out what is broken with your picker. lol I know that sounds funny but sometimes we subconciously pick ppl that are not right for us. And it is likely that we repeat this. I did this for years....I picked guys who cheated....bottom line....I picked men that could not really comitt..hmmmm...that was something within myself. Not saying you are like me at all.....just something to take a look at. They say only when you are truly happy and content with yourself can you find true love. Let me tell you....it happened JUST LIKE THAT to me.

    Get on your feet ....have fun with your friends....have fun with yourself and your life. Take this time to enjoy yourself!!

    You really do deserve to be treated right and that person is out there and you will probably meet him in the weirdest of places. :gj:

    If I lived near you...I would have to take you out for a celebratory girls nite out...:8:
  • 01-14-2010, 11:25 AM
    monk90222
    Re: Feelin good
    Have fun with it!
  • 01-14-2010, 11:31 AM
    iCandiBallPythons
    Re: Feelin good
    Always keep in mind, a situation may seem bad, but it will always workout for the better.
  • 01-14-2010, 12:16 PM
    pitbulls4me
    Re: Feelin good
    Wow I really appreciate all the great replies.

    I went out to a bar for the first time last night and I am almost 24! I had a few drinks which I haven't had anything to drink since I was 18. Needless to say I was a bit intoxicated when i got home last night... hence the post. I apologize for that. On a better note I am glad it turned out that people are there to support me!

    He was a controlling type and a very angry person. I started rebelling at the end of the relationship and that's what ultimately ended it. So now I am doing what I want! And let me tell you... if feels awesome!
  • 01-14-2010, 12:30 PM
    joepythons
    Re: Feelin good
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by pitbulls4me View Post
    It is probably a bit weird but I am going to post about my new found freedom ( a lack of friends to share the good news with lead to this post). I am now a single woman after being imprisoned in a horrible relationship for 5 years! It is hard moving past the end of the relationship but in the end it truly feels good! I am not sure how the whole dating thing goes so this being single thing will probably last a bit. I am hoping to rekindle freidnships lost due to the relationship and control nature of it.

    Well thats all... again I apologize for the crazy post.

    Congrats :gj:.
  • 01-14-2010, 12:35 PM
    joepythons
    Re: Feelin good
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by pitbulls4me View Post
    Wow I really appreciate all the great replies.

    I went out to a bar for the first time last night and I am almost 24! I had a few drinks which I haven't had anything to drink since I was 18. Needless to say I was a bit intoxicated when i got home last night... hence the post. I apologize for that. On a better note I am glad it turned out that people are there to support me!

    He was a controlling type and a very angry person. I started rebelling at the end of the relationship and that's what ultimately ended it. So now I am doing what I want! And let me tell you... if feels awesome!

    You are one of the bpnet family members why wouldnt we support you? Just be glad you did not marry him ;).
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