i need advice.

:rolleyes::oops::O:confused::rolleye2::gj::snake::8::cool::taz::salute::banana:: banana::banana::banana::banana::banana::banana::banana::bow:me and my gf havent talked 4 a few weeks.i told her why.and she went and got some country boy.[im from tenesse].and then we got in a fight then we made up.she gave me her address so i can send her stuff.and today i google the address.and the street names dont match and i already sent her a letter.wat wud u do.pm or reply to this post wit advice:(:mad::P

In any relationship, clear communication is the key to success.

Both people deserve not to be played around with, no mind games, NO LYING. If there is any of that, there is a serious problem.

The thing to do is to talk to her, face to face if possible (though that may be difficult if you don't know how to find her), so at least call her.

Give her the benefit of the doubt for her address I suppose, I've gotten weird issues with addresses before using online map services. Call and double check.

well not talking to your GF for 4 weeks....that is pretty bad!! Just like the other person said...you have to have open communication. Sometimes that can be difficult. Im an Italian girl that can hold a grudge a LONG time. So it takes some doing on my part to break that!!!

With that in mind...you need to just have a very serious conversation and really be honest and open. The fact that she went and got another "guy"...should tell you something though. It is hard to recover from that one...but I have seen ppl do it. Just don't get into this type of relationship where you break up...get back together....break up..yada yada. And don't "glamourize" your relationship. What I mean is look back on all the good things and push aside the fact that maybe you are not right for each other.

The only other thing I can tell you is take a look at your past relationships...were they like this?? We tend to subconsiously (I know I spelled that one wrong) pick the same type of individuals and make the same type of relationship mistakes....I call it a broken picker!! Hard to fix that until you take a good look at it.

my phones got broke in a fight and i told her that and she said ok.i e-mailed her every other day though.but thanks for the advice.and ur an italian girl if u gotta a sec lets talk i love having italian friends.[because im partially italian myself]:):):):):):salute::salute::salute::salute::banana::banana::banana:

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Originally Posted by bloodpython19

:rolleyes::oops::O:confused::rolleye2::gj::snake::8::cool::taz::salute::banana:: banana::banana::banana::banana::banana::banana::banana::bow:me and my gf havent talked 4 a few weeks.i told her why.and she went and got some country boy.[im from tenesse].and then we got in a fight then we made up.she gave me her address so i can send her stuff.and today i google the address.and the street names dont match and i already sent her a letter.wat wud u do.pm or reply to this post wit advice:(:mad::P

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BG wud lay da snackdown in dis countree boy fa sure...then he wud tell his gf to git lost fur hookin up wid dis countree boyee. Find a new gf n all will b well.

BG tinks she is stilla wit dis boyee and doesn't want you ta know where she at.

I'm glad you speak his language BG, it took me a couple of reads to understand what he was saying.

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Originally Posted by BPelizabeth

Im an Italian girl that can hold a grudge a LONG time. So it takes some doing on my part to break that!!!

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Italian girls scare me. I am in a failing relationship with one. She is mean. :D

I would email her and ask her to confirm her address, then send a letter with return reciept, its like 50 cents, then you can ensure its her address.
If it isn't, email her and ask her why.
Tell her the truth that you would either like to send her, her stuff. OR that you would like to meet with her, she and you both bring adults OR friends, and meet in a neutral place so you can give her, her stuff...

I would then take some time off, from relationship... and then find some one a bit more compatible.. perhaps
Carol

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Italian girls scare me. I am in a failing relationship with one. She is mean. :D

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Kinda what Big Gunns suspected was the "root" of your issues. Find some strength to dump her, and get on with your life.:gj:

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Originally Posted by Big Gunns

BG wud lay da snackdown in dis countree boy fa sure...then he wud tell his gf to git lost fur hookin up wid dis countree boyee. Find a new gf n all will b well.

BG tinks she is stilla wit dis boyee and doesn't want you ta know where she at.

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Do you have the french translation for that :8: