Id say male spider female pastel, thats what i did then you can make bees. Or a male cinnamon bred to your female would make more cinnys, or any other co dom. I wouldnt breed a normal female to anything but cod-doms so at least you get some morphs, otherwise get a reccesive morph and make hets. As for a male normal hes not really any good for breeding if you want to make morphs. He'd be good as a teaser, if his smell is on the female it might get another male more likely to breed.