Friends to lovers?

[monk90222]

glad to hear you ar eboth happy, and hopefully it stays that way. In my experience the biggest mistake I ever made was dating my best friend, who is now my wife. I love her to death, but our friendship was so great and we used to have so much fun together. But now everything is serious, and not so much fun. Hopeully you both can void that though. Goodluck

I agree with you brotha! I married my best friend also.

I gotta say, I really don't agree with this post. How could marrying your best friend be a bad thing? The fun doesn't HAVE to end when you get married. It's all in how you look at things. Obviously, marriage is more serious than friendship or dating (that's kind of the point), but that doesn't mean there can't be any fun. You just have to shift until you find the right balance. Just my opinion...

Mel, I have to say from experience, that being best friends, then dating a best friend is great!....but to marry one is both good and bad. Bad because the relationship changes (no matter how much anyone says it doesn't) when your married. Mortgages, Bills, Kids, In-laws, jobs, saving for retirement, saving for college, yadda yadda yadda, makes the fairytale come to a screeching halt!
Its good becasuse once the looks fade, kids leave and you cannot do the things you once did when younger, you have a best friend to grow old with....

Still going strong.

YES! She's a hottie...but does she love snakes?