Nahh, I should have probed them as soon as I got them home. I have had them both well over a year. One probes shallow and I had 2 others tell me he was a she. Explains the combating behavior I had a couple weeks ago.
Mistakes happen and since I am just finding out now, there is no reason to go to the sellers. One I won't deal with again and it is not worth the hassle, the other is a really good guy. Chalk it up to a learning experience. If nothing else, it has pushed me to learn how to probe.