ordering online will be way more expensive b/c of shipping unless you order in serious bulk..
I'd suggest putting an ad up on craigslist maybe? There's certain to be people breeding feeders who have some excess.
Are there any local exotics stores? I'd sort of expect some in NJ, don't know why I'd think that other than it's populated enough.. Most that I know of sell frozen feeders, and it really should be cheaper than petco/petsmart.
Sorry if that isn't much help on specifics but just some ideas that might get you on the right track!