Like I said... We know this was a mistake, and we know that this was avoidable. You speaking the way you are about her... less than a week after her death...Calling her "stupid" and harping on her mistake...is not only is unecessary, but is actively showing a lack of compassion. I am not saying that your statements are not true... Just that going on like that at this time is insensitive, unecessary, and overly self righteous. We all make mistakes, we all break the rules now and then, and we all hope that it ends up in our best interest when we do. I seriously doubt you are any different. You are going pretty hard on her considering you are judging her based on a brief article and your own assumptions. Neither you or myslef knew her, or were in the room when it happened... So why do you think you are an expert on her death to the point where you know how stupid she was. She could have been killed by a clever intruder with a perfect cover up... we just don't know and it is not our place to try and guess, or pass judgement on the case. I can't imagine what her husband would think reading your statements having just lost his wife... Knowing your level of compassion I know you wouldn't care what he thought. I hope your kids get their since of morality from someone else.









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