jesus christ. does no one on here understand that i was asking for advice not to be fussed at by everyone and there mom! i completly undestand what every one is saying, and agree to all of your opions. but i did not start this thread to be attacked! so for those of you that acutally did give helpful advice in a kind manner thank you! and for those of you that didnt just picture yourslef in my shoes and think about it real hard. MOD PLEASE DELETE THIS THREAD.