Again, thank you all. On another note. to all the guys, if you are shopping for a wedding band, and youre worried about it getting messed up nbecause of work or what have you, check out the tungsten bands at walmart, they look really nice, and only cost about 50 bucks. These things are practically indestructible. I sanded the sidewalk with it and it didnt even touch the finish !!! Awesome rugged ring