HEY, I WAS gonna be first.
Kidding..

I'm not married, but I already know the answer. No.
I'm not changing my name (most likely) UNLESS his name is extremely attractive in my eye.. which most names really arn't to me.

Why? It probably has something to do with my Father and Ex-Step Father trying to get my mom to change her name (which she never did) and they really wanted it just for power and control.
I think its stupid. It's on my damn birth certificate, its a TON of money, you have to change EVERYTHING (license, passport, ext) and its just a ridiculous amount of work that isn't worth it.

If the guy is incredibly upset that it's not enough commitment, then he clearly doesn't understand the meaning of marriage. :]
Plus I don't like that tradition.. never did make sense to me.. why can't the guy take the girls name eh?

NOT that I discourage it with anyone else, just my personal opinion regarding myself. ^_^