well thanks guys for all ur info on this subject. I do not think hes phobic like I cant even see them on tv phobic. The first time I fed my snake he was right up to the glass takin pictures of my snake eating! I even asked if it was alright if he watched him to make sure he didn't get out of the cage ( I feed in a separate tank ) so I could do up the dishes really quick before we left. He was all fine with that. He can look at my snake but between the glass. It is confusing. But then again (no offense guys) what guy isnt . We got into a little argument about it not to long ago. and at the time I was most likely thinking I was going to HAVE to get rid of my snake. So I told him "Ok guess what you win. You shattered my heart and you win." Weirdest thing happened the argument stopped right away and we rode in silence all the way back to my house. I think that comment kinda made him realize how my snake and animals in general mean to me. So not sure of what he is thinking now. I dont like to bring up the subject >.< I hate to argue.

As for being a control freak. I'm not quiet feeling that vib from it. I know it is difficult to understand a relationship that you are not in but I really don't think he is trying to do that. He is not an animal hater he just likes the little whimmpy animals where I like the big strong animals that everyone is mostly afraid of lol. At first while I was looking at reptiles I saw leopard Geckos he was all against that to but then all of a sudden I saw snakes and thought that would be wicked cool to get and I set my mind on that then he was like well what about the Leopard Geckos y don't you get one of those. I don't know what goes through his head some times. I really do yup I'm gunna use it as young as a am LOVE him. We been dating all through high school. He graduated last year and I graduated this year. I love them both. I am determined to make this work

As for boyfriend v2.0 I dont think so

Wow what a long post