I agree that it sounds like a control issue. In my experience, once that cycle starts, it doesn't stop. It will start with trying to control what pets you can have, then maybe what clothes you can wear, who you can be friends with, etc... I'm not saying this IS the case, just what I have seen in my experience. I would say that if he has a problem with you bringing your pets, maybe you should say that it doesn't sound like he's ready to take the relationship to that next level. See what his reaction is. It could go either way. Either he will become more receptive to the idea of having animals when he realizes you are that passionate about them. On the other hand, you may just find out that he's not the right guy after all... Whatever happens, good luck with everything and know it will all work out for the best in the end...