Quote Originally Posted by azak323 View Post
One thing i hate about this site is that a lot of people never give ANYONE the benefit of the doubt. Some people just can't wait to blame or point the finger at anything that could be even remotely wrong, even when there might be a perfectly good, likely explanation for it. i've only been on this site for a couple months now, and the first few weeks i was very intimidated by how/what people said to me and to other new people. I was scared to even ask a question because of the reactions i thought i was going to get. but, maybe i'm just sensitive. i don't know. if i am, sorry for wasting your time. By no means am i saying that there aren't certain situations where something HAS been done wrong or a mistake made; but, just as often there are times when the problem could be attributed to something else. If it IS one of those situations where it's an obvious error, i also think that it's unnecessary to respond to the person as if they've done it on purpose or don't care. if they are here asking questions, they obviously care, and i wish more people would respond positively with support and encouragement. I WOULD like to say thank you to the few of you that actually were encouraging in their responses to my first posts; it has not gone forgotten. overall, however, i've just been a little let down to see so many people be so quick to think the worst of other people.
Stick around a few more years and you'll see whay people are jaded at times.
Too many people have been given the benefit of the doubt in the past only to find out they didn't deserve it.
There are certain signs in some posts that give off red flags. People pick up on it.