Argh! SOunds sucky. If it makes you feel better, my neutered male cat is going berserk because this stray feral tabby is around and will not leave the farm here. Can't get within 25 feet of him/her.. but MAN does my cat want to get out! He is a housecat and won't.. but yes now he is always by the door wanting to get out to the other cat..
Ain't life great?