Wow. Get the kid in for a health exam and a psych eval.
If that clears, get him into counseling with the family.
If it doesn't clear, like our medical model slaps him with ODD, forgo the pills they will want to push and get them in for counseling. Rules need to be set and the kid doesn't get an opinion.
There are dynamics going on that we are not privy to in this little sound byte segment~ and Dr. Phil is an idiot.