Lol, an old classic i need to use more often, lol. XD
But seriously, it is rude both to give snide comments disguised as help and to receive them with as much rudeness. The fact OP posted here is a step in the right direction and it is our job to try to correct as gently but firmly as possible. I think OP as well as others could take my advice.
"he started it" is a five year old's response, not a mature adults. I really hate seeing unnecessary rudeness from anyone, but I also hate when responders claim that it's ok to be rude back. So I apologise if I lookded too snide. It is my true opinion in the matter, there is no reason to get upset at advice, even if it isn't the most kindly worded.