Hi Mel~
I think what you're hearing is a lot of frustration and real concern for the people who were going to get Jen's snakes when they haven't been cleared for sale- even though Jen said that they had.
I also think you're hearing voices that are saying we have to have more integrity than ever in our business deals since our businesses and hobby is under attack.
I also think you're hearing people who have been in on this disaster from the beginning (courtesy of all of Jen's blogs) and then the people who are only just now trying to understand what was going on and what is going on.
I don't agree with your comparison to Fauna. I also don't agree that questions have not been asked. I do believe that the questions have not been answered (where is Jen) and that, in turn, leads to more frustration.
This is just my 2 cents...