Your getting pretty irritating. I've kept quite while reading this thread, due to the fact I have no idea what is really going on. From the looks of it, you were inquiring to begin with and trying to talk her into doing something morally wrong. You were willing to buy the snakes, knowing the entire situation, and what you could possibly cause. What does this say about yourself, your morals, and what actions your willing to take? It speaks pretty low of your morals and understanding of the hobby...
I'd like to know exactly who you are. It'll let me know who to avoid in the future. Please show proof of who you are as well...