Be confident, observe your snake’s body language and always make your snake aware of our presence and most important just take it one step at the time.

If right now you are only comfortable with your husband taking the snake out and handing it to you, just do that and learn to be comfortable with that snake.

Than once you are more comfy and confident enough, pick up the snake with your husband by your side showing you how to do it, and do that with him until you gain a little more confidence.

And I am sure in no time you will reach in the enclosure without hesitation and if you never do it’s ok too, my husband does not mind handling my reptiles (at least he does not anymore) however I know he will probably never reach in their enclosures to pick them up.