Steve, you know this hits close to home for me, what with my daughter and all...and I would have thought that I might have something meaningful to say for you...but really, words are inadequate to soothe the raw heart ache you're feeling right now and they will never lessen the sadness that lingers...this is the price that we pay when we love another.
Hugs to you and to your dad and to your entire family during this sad sad time. In my prayers, McKinsey