Oh man... I am so phobic of bees and wasps....
We had wasps building nests outside our window last summer, and kept asking the maintenance people to do something. Well finally one day I walked into the room to see one of my corns looking up tracking something...it was a big wasp. I started crying so hard I could barely see or breathe. That, of course, alerted my BF who watched the thing while I RAN down to the office, in tears, to have someone go kill the thing. They consoled me while the resident 'stinging insect expert' went up and sprayed it, then sprayed outside the window and on the porch for us. He even left us the can of spray which is instant and reaches pretty far. After that episode, they saw just how scared of them I am and sent a team to reseal the bedroom window and make sure the nests were down.
So I feel for ya...