Quote Originally Posted by Skoalbasher View Post
I understand now, and I'll get out, thought it was more of a "Should I, or Should I not" thread. Heinsight (spelling) is sometimes better IMO than someone going through it. That may not make any sense, but I continue to see people I know and love fall off the face of the earth because they have a newborn at home. I'm happy for them, and I want a child too, but EVERYTHING should be in order.

As far as the same sex marriage thing, while it is illegal, and to me it doesn't matter either way, there are still legal ways to get rights to a child without being married. I'm pretty sure everyone that would possible get the child has to sign off on it, but you can make a contract for just about anything now. As long as all parties agree and all affected parties agree, I don't see where the problem would be.
As for "Should I, or Should I Not." That is up to me. . I don't let anyone whether it be someone online, a friend, or even a family member decide anything for me. I'll take all the advice I can get but whether I act on that advice is up to me. And I appreciate everyone's input on this subject.