Quote Originally Posted by Jay_Bunny View Post
Job:
As for a job, I have been in the same job for almost 2 years. It doesn't pay all that well, but I make enough to pay for everything I need to pay for and also set some aside for hobbies and savings.

Education:
I have stopped taking classes at college for the time being but plan to start taking classes online in the Fall.

Travel:
I rarely travel. I used to go places all the time but I don't have the urge to travel as much anymore. My fiance and I don't go on vacation that often (our last trip was in October and we went to New York for the weekend.) I can live without vacation since I'm not used to it anyway. I am content to be at home.

Partying:
This is something I do not do. My fiance likes to go out to clubs on a very rare occasion but that's all. As for alcohol, we hardly drink. The occasional glass of wine is good for me. And I don't smoke. I'm not into going out at night and partying the night away. Its just not me. I'm that kind of person that likes to stay at home and care for my animals.

^ Just a few tid-bits I thought I'd throw in. As for taking care of a baby for a weekend, the only person we know that has a baby is a long drive away and her baby is almost 2. (She had a baby at 18)
You can live without a vacation, because you don't need a vacation. When you have a kid, you will beg for a vacation. I don't have any children, but like I said, I have many friends with children.

Unless you don't have any friends, anything else you care about. 21 is too young. You keep saying you're not to young, just wondering what the problem is then? I mean, you already know you're not too young, you say you have the money and time to do it. I'm not real sure what the question is here.

When you're 20 asking whether or not you should have a child, id' say 80% of the level headed people you ask are going to say you are two young.

2 years at a job is hardly a career, it's just a job. I'm not going off here, I just hate seeing young parents struggling because they thought they could do it.

Here's a thought, something I will certainly do before I decide. Go look at baby food, clothes diapers and what-not at the store. Add up how much that will cost per day, then add up how much "extra" money you have for hobbies and what-not.

Why did you make Government in all caps? Is there a reason you can't get married, you don't mind telling us?