My sister has been leeching off family members for years. She never gets a job. her older son went to juvenile hall and she moved out of state with her husband and younger child. When her son got out of juvie he went to his father's mother's house to live. When my sister split up with her husband she moved in with my aunt, and eventually got kicked out after over a year of not finding a job or enrolling her 6 year old son in school. All she did was play world of warcraft. I live 8 hours from my aunt, in Ohio. I looked up numbers to resources to help her and offered them but I couldn't do anything else. I was afraid to call children's services, and I didn't know what else I could say to her. When she got kicked out she moved in with some internet friends somewhere else. They kicked her out there too, for not getting a job after 2 months. Eventually she dropped her son off at his dad's house in Alabama and moved to another state with some new internet friend. I resent her already because I have been on my own since 17, pretty much. I have never had any support from my family or any friends, and I have made it this far. I am enrolled in nursing school so that I can make a living and be a role model for my kids, and here she sits on her rear end leeching off of family members, when she's 8 years older than me and married (well technically, she was married and leeching off family for years, the split up was recent) She asked if I had room for them at one point. She would have done the same to me. If I weren't trying to juggle a job, school and 2 kids all by myself I would have offered to take her son and enroll him in school here. I seriously considered it but I would have had to drop out of school to make that work, since I have no support of my own.