No interests. That's the killer!!! Haha

And she's a tough one. I could say that the money I could save would help towards getting her a better engagement ring. Or a vacation or what have you like you suggested.

All fine and dandy. Till we come back from the trip and there's still an 82 degree room in the house for the next 20 years.

Wouldn't happen. Haha

So this is my option.



Quote Originally Posted by KLG View Post
Easy! Explain to her that with the money you'd be saving by NOT RHPing your cages, you'll be able to put more towards something you can do together - i.e. a vacay (even a weekender), a big event (what are her interests?), etc.

That's where it comes down to the give-and-take. You just have to follow through & do it! The more you make an effort to balance relationship stuff with herp stuff, the more herp stuff you should be able to do (from someone who has been involved w/non-herpers & had to make those concessions, too).