Well I would first like to thank all of you for your input and advice. Tosha it's nice to hear that I might not have messed up to bad, but I'm still trying it the other way for while since it seems the overwhelming majority move their males around. The specific females I'm thinking definitely might do better staying home, everytime I put them in the males tub they shoot to the back like abullet, I'm sure that's not a sign of calmness and I'm sure it might bug my males out a little. From what i hear it wouldn't be that uncommon for someone to still be receptive and just lay clutch a little later than the others. Who knows! I'll try!
I can't sleep.....Go G-MEN!