Exactly like Brad said! We have a baby bp with us as well, and the key is brief handling sessions. She is fine with us now, and a joy to hang out with, but give her those 2 weeks of no handling or bothering time before you start holding her a few times a week. She should come around fine.

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I forgot, I noticed something. Are you using a digital thermometer/hygrometer? It's best to invest in one, maybe an accurite w/ the probe. Those dial ones are notorious for being wrong. Just a thought.